Rabu, 14 November 2012

ADMITTING MISTAKES & MAKING PROMISES


Admitting mistake

Admitting mistake is the way you to admit and ask for a sorry of your mistake.
Mistake is a misunderstanding or misconception or an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgement caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc. When you have a mistake to someone, you need to plead your mistake, so the problem will be clear.

Benefits of admitting mistakes :
ü It demonstrates your courage.
ü It demonstrates your humanity.
ü It engenders more trusting relationship.
ü It creates greater organizational value.

Admitting Mistakes Expressions :
§  I’m sorry. It’s my fault.
§  You’re right. I’m fully responsible for this matter.
§  I admit what I’ve done is wrong.
§  I realize I’ve made mistakes.
§  Yes, I take the blame.
§  It’s my mistakes. Please forgive me.
§  It shouldn’t be like this. Forgive me.
§  I never intended it that way.
§  Sorry, I didn’t mean to.
§  I know. I shouldn’t have done that. Sorry.
§  Sorry. I know this was my fault.
§  I'm deserve to have this.
§  This has been my terrible mistake.
§  I wouldn't do it anymore. 
§  I didn't think of the consequences.

Responding an Admit of Mistake :
§  Don’t mention it.
§  That would be okay.
§  Just take it easy.
§  Let it go.
§  Forget it.
§  That’s fine.
§  I give you sorry.
§  It doesn’t matter for me.
§  It’s okay.
§  Okay/Alright.
§  Don’t do it again.
§  Don’t worry about it.
§  Be careful of what you did.

Making Promise

Making Promise is the expression is used to express/show a promise to someone.
A promise  is a commitment by someone to do or not do something or a declaration that something will or will not be done, given, etc.

The dialog of expressing Making Promise :
Andre   : Hi, Jen. I was told that I'd fine you here. I want to talk with you.
Jenny   : I'm sorry Ndre, I can't, I’m very busy and I have many activity today, I dont have a time to talk about anyway.
Andre   : But I want to apologize with you, please forgive me, I know you think I'm a looser man, but I promise to change my attitude.
Jenny   : You said it too yesterday.
Andre   : Please JennyI swear this time, believe me!
Jenny   : Sorry I have many activity today, I have to go, bye!



Before make a Promise we need to :
§  Think about the promise before you make it.
§  Be honest about your capabilities.
§  Talk about the promise with another person .
§  Watch the things that you promised .
§  Keep your mouth shut.

Making Promises Expressions :
Responding a Promise :
§  I swear.
§  I promise.
§  Trust me, I can.
§  I will pick you up.
§  I assure you.........
§  I promise/swear that I........
§  I promise you that........
§  I promise/swear I will........
§  Keep my promise
§   Thank you.
§   I believe you.
§   Let me be assured.
§   Okay. Thanks.
§   Just let the time to answer.
§   I wish you can keep on your promise.
§   All right. Keep your promise.
§   Really? Let me be assured.

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